How To (Finally) Get Connected To Church

One of the things I remember about growing up in the church had to do with our church’s covenant. The covenant was adopted by the church as a means of letting everyone know who we were and what we believed as a church. Though it didn’t deal with doctrine, the covenant did stipulate how we would live as part of the family of God.

The final item of the church covenant said something like this: “If we move from this place, we will quickly reunite with another church and become faithful in the service and ministry of the church.” What a great encouragement that was for people who moved from place to place. They needed to get involved and begin serving and ministering in their new home.

In spite of this encouragement and agreement on the part of the members of the church, most people have a very difficult time getting connected to a new church. This failure to connect hurts their family, the local church, and the kingdom of God.

How do you get connected to a church?

First, visit your prospective church four weeks in a row. Unless there is some absolute reason why you would not go back a second time, you really need to worship four consecutive weeks to get a real feel for the congregation and for those who lead the church. Attending a week and missing a week doesn’t help your getting connected. If you attend sporadically, it’s kind of like the movie “Groundhog Day.” It feels the same but you never get anywhere. I recommend going four weeks consecutively to get a good feel for the church.

Second, seek out the pastor and other church leaders to introduce yourself and get an opportunity to begin the process of knowing them.

Third, attend a small group Bible study. This may be the most important decision you can make. By getting together with other believers you will get to know the spiritual temperature of the church. You will also begin making the church open and accessible to you. We have a saying at First Baptist Covington that if you want to make the church small (meaning warm, open, friendly, and caring) you need to attend a small group Bible study.

Finally, find a place to serve and minister. Only when you have found a place of service can you really be connected to a church. At this point you will finally be connected.

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6 Responses

  1. Good stuff. We have so many on our church roll that are not attending but have no desire to remove their name even if they are attending another church. You are spot on especially with #3, they must get connected with other believers,

  2. Such a simple message, but so so important for a healthy relationship. Small groups are a must. I have to say though, usually the visitors or new members do not have to seek long for a staff member, as you all are the first ones to offer a warm welcome. It meant a lot to us as a family when we first attended. Thanks

    1. Thanks, I am glad to hear you had a good experience. We must keep all of this at the forefront of what we do. Many people have a hard time getting connected and we need to do everything possible to make it an easier experience.

  3. Agree whole heartedly and it basically what we have always done when we moved around in years past. We currently love our church here at Broadmoor Baptist in Shreveport, La. and have been active since joining. Hope all going super down there. Our choir will be in N.O area over weekend of March 21, thru 23 and I will be singing with them if Lana is in shape to stay here alone with daughters help.
    We will go to Angola and Church without Walls, then a Gentile Church, etc.
    Lana would come but tough on her right now.
    In Christ, Ray

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